What we want VS What we get

When we want something to happen, something else happens. When we need it to happen, it doesn’t happen. When we least expect it, it happens.

I’m the kind of person who tries to figure everything out. “Why did this happen?”, “Why did they do that?”, “What’s the reason for this?” I will come up with a dozen possible scenarios in my head, racking my brain for answers that I will never have. Sounds complicated huh? Well, itulah dia seorang Mieya. Haha.

“Everything happens for a reason” is the quote I try and convince myself to believe in. Because we all need reassurance sometimes. Don’t we? But, what if everything doesn’t happen for a reason? Yeah, I know. Life isn’t a math formula. Sometimes things don’t always add up. Not everything fits perfectly together. There isn’t always an answer. Sedangkan tak semua soalan final exam kita boleh jawab kan? Okay ini contoh jewwww demam final exam tak habis lagi okay tahu la hambar -_____-

Every aspect of your life doesn’t need to be rationalized. Life is for living, not figuring things out. Sometimes, we will never know why certain things happen, we need to take things for what they are. We think we’ll find comfort in knowing the reason why something happened. We won’t. The reason behind the action won’t change the action. We have to accept that sometimes it simply is what it is.

So, maybe that right there is the real quote we need to focus on believing in instead –> “It is what it is”.

BUT, I think what matters most is how we cope with the things that happen to us that we just can’t seem to make sense of. Because in the end it doesn’t matter what happens, but more importantly how we react to it. It’s the ups and downs of life that make us who we are. Don’t dwell on why they happen, just accept that they do.

I am a strong believer of the words “Not everything that we love is good for us & not everything we hate is bad for us”. There is always a good reason behind everything. So, keep believing my darling self! 😉